Although our hair was historically policed by others, many of us have, in subtle ways, picked up the baton ourselves. The conversation is no longer just about wigs or natural hair. It is about autonomy, perception, and the quiet calculations Black women still make every morning before work.

If I kept every necklace, bracelet and earring set from every friend, boyfriend and situation-ship I've ever been in, I'd be walking around like Rick Ross. "Bhaws" It feels like it's a no brainer, and I'm not sure who needs to hear this, but throw that piece of jewellery in the bin. Or better yet, sell it on Vinted, and make a lil change. Jewellery holds energy and memories. Fair enough not all memories are bad, but past a certain point, you too deserve to forget what was, wh

Brain farts and shower thoughts taken straight from my various notebooks.

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